I survived it.
I get it.
I’ve got you.
The Wily Survivor
Narcissistic Abuse and Trauma Recovery Coach
At Wily Survivor, I help survivors of narcissistic abuse break free, rebuild, and thrive. Through personalized, trauma-informed coaching and expert strategies, I guide you through the complexities of this insidious abuse with strength and resilience. I’ve walked this path myself, and I know what it takes to rise above those who seek to tear you down.
My mission is to arm you with the insights, tools, and support needed to reclaim your narrative and forge a future that’s truly yours. Together, we’ll strategize your path forward because surviving isn’t enough. You deserve to live fully, freely, and empowered.
At Wily Survivor, I help survivors of narcissistic abuse break free, rebuild, and thrive. Through personalized, trauma-informed coaching and expert strategies, I guide you through the complexities of this insidious abuse with strength and resilience. I’ve walked this path myself, and I know what it takes to rise above those who seek to tear you down.
“Esther enabled me to remove the blinders and see the narcissist’s manipulative behaviors for what they really were. She gave me the clarity and strength I needed to recognize their manipulative patterns and take back control of my life.”
My mission is to arm you with the insights, tools, and support needed to reclaim your narrative and forge a future that’s truly yours. Together, we’ll strategize your path forward because surviving isn’t enough. You deserve to live fully, freely, and empowered.
Empowering You Through Experience and Expertise
At Wily Survivor, I combine my master’s in psychology with personal experience to provide coaching that is both informed and empathetic. I understand the nuances of narcissistic abuse—pre- and post-separation, in family dynamics, and within the legal system. My unique approach combines compassionate support with expert insights to help survivors rebuild their lives, guiding them on a journey of healing and triumph. Through personalized, trauma-informed coaching, family court expertise, and empowerment strategies, I provide a safe space for you to rediscover your strength and resilience.
I know how overwhelming it can be when everything feels confusing, isolating, and unreal. Does something in your relationship seem off? Does your partner run hot and cold? Are you feeling isolated? Do you feel no one believes your story? Are you questioning your reality? I’ve been there. I lived through and survived several "relationships" with a narcissist, experiences that brought me to my knees. But I didn’t let it ruin my life. Once I understood who I was up against, I knew I had to outwit, outmaneuver, and out-strategize the person who tried to destroy me.
Whether you need support identifying and understanding an abusive "relationship," help with an exit strategy, or guidance on how to navigate a divorce or custody battle, let me use my expertise to help you find your smart path forward. Join me at Wily Survivor and embark on a journey of empowerment, healing, and newfound freedom.
At Wily Survivor, we prioritize your privacy and confidentiality. Rest assured, all information, email correspondence, and discussions shared during our sessions are held in the strictest confidence. We have a steadfast commitment to never disclose, share, or sell any of your personal or session-related data to marketers or third parties. Your trust is paramount to us, and your privacy is our utmost priority.
The most important life coaching method I can teach you is how to be honest with yourself.
Hi, I’m Esther…
I am a life coach who specializes in teaching you the tools to find your smart path forward. I earned a master’s degree in psychology and I am passionate about empowering men and women to navigate through and survive the challenges of a toxic relationship.
Going head-to-head with a toxic person is a different kind of challenge.
Let me teach you how to level the playing field.
Identify the red flags of a toxic relationship. How to properly deal with toxic romantic relationships, toxic parental relationships, and toxic work environments.
Establish healthy boundaries.
How to communicate with a narcissist and how to respond to their inflammatory communications.
The dos and don’ts of social media.
Identify the narcissist’s tool box (love bombing, hoovering, gaslighting, etc.).
Coping strategies for feelings of isolation and loneliness.
Establishing a genuine support system.
Preparing to leave a toxic relationship, strategies on “leaving smart”.
Family court preparation (methods of documentation, choosing an attorney, and dealing with a court-appointed evaluator).
Parenting skills during a toxic breakup, how to co-parent, and how to talk with your children.
Identify your own behaviors that could lead to future toxic relationships.
Techniques for self-affirmation and claiming victory.
Learn the power of self-care.
Techniques to avoid financial abuse.
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At Wily Survivor, we prioritize your privacy and confidentiality. Rest assured, all information, email correspondence, and discussions shared during our sessions are held in the strictest confidence. We have a steadfast commitment to never disclose, share, or sell any of your personal or session-related data to marketers or third parties. Your trust is paramount to us, and your privacy is our utmost priority.